Since Beans school incident recently I have become all that much more aware of how school improperly handles children with needs they don't understand. I am seeing a re-occurring theme that I find so unsettling.
It's the over-correction, under-supportive, non compassionate, non empathetic way that schools often view, and treat our children.
It seems so common that I find most parents don't even notice it. They just see the way their child is treated as the way it is. It doesn't have to be. Most find what happened to my son to be appalling, but what they don't understand is that if their child is being restrained at any point in their day that could easily be their child.
I have written a lot about behavior supports, and such, and will include those entries at the end of this entry for a reference to those that may not have seen it. As a quick reference, here are some points I'd like people to remember when dealing with the school, and autistic children.
* If your child is struggling in any way with school personnel, and behavior request a Functional Behavior Assessment. Don't think that it would cause too much trouble, or think that just because a certain para is working with your child that they'll be okay. Don't let the school make you feel that they're doing so much that you should be grateful, and not ask for more. That was the biggest mistake I made, by far.