tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post5622626977632444150..comments2024-02-10T03:00:31.683-06:00Comments on Thoughts of an Introverted Matriarch: Some People are Just JerksQuiet Contemplationhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14667867394641955283noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post-62693182089645834822018-01-21T09:39:02.226-06:002018-01-21T09:39:02.226-06:00yes. exactly my feelings tooyes. exactly my feelings tooEricka Autiegirl https://www.blogger.com/profile/12992151994463989419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post-67847475206163644822018-01-19T09:40:37.634-06:002018-01-19T09:40:37.634-06:00It has for me, too. Shocking and saddening for me....It has for me, too. Shocking and saddening for me. Like I had to grieve for the loss of what I thought the world was about.Quiet Contemplationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14667867394641955283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post-89031062481757631302017-12-30T14:55:55.873-06:002017-12-30T14:55:55.873-06:00i know exactly what you mean!
ive had to learn th...i know exactly what you mean! <br />ive had to learn that i cant expect everyone else to have the same heart as me, and thats been heartbreaking. Ericka Autiegirl https://www.blogger.com/profile/12992151994463989419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post-12721674192231982132017-07-07T11:45:46.466-05:002017-07-07T11:45:46.466-05:00Yes, I found it shocking that some people might ac...Yes, I found it shocking that some people might actually go out of their way to be a jerk to someone else for no real reason at all, because in my mind that is so foreign. It's just so far from any way that I'd ever behave it's almost inconceivable to me.Quiet Contemplationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14667867394641955283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8053855593846713089.post-51861361799303493352017-06-19T11:20:58.192-05:002017-06-19T11:20:58.192-05:00oh so true. i always think that people who im frie...oh so true. i always think that people who im friends with have the same heart and intentions that i do, and i always get let down by that. ive been heartbroken to find that no, not even people i have as friends will treat me as i would treat them. they wont go the literal miles i would go to see them... some because they cant and i understand that and some because they wont... they'll go the miles right past my house and still not take time for me. and i need to learn and keep learning that its just that they arent like me, they dont have the same heart as i do. maybe it goes with my perfectionism that i hold them to the same perfect standard that i hold myself to. its not really fair, even if i should be able to have friends that give enough to me ...<br /><br />also made me think of that whole black and white thinking. theres no "middle" in my mind, either yes or no, right or wrong, black or white. :P i dont like gray areas, i cant really sit well with them because i dont understand what they are. :P Ericka Autiegirl https://www.blogger.com/profile/12992151994463989419noreply@blogger.com